Bucket List
Things to do together,
before it's too late.
Adventures, trips, meals, experiences — the things you keep meaning to do with someone and keep not doing. Write them down. Then actually do them.
What is a bucket list — and why track it digitally?
A bucket list is a collection of experiences, adventures, and goals you want to accomplish — things that matter enough to write down so they don't stay vague intentions forever.
The trouble with mental bucket lists is that they stay mental. You think about the trip you want to take with your best friend, the restaurant you've been meaning to try together, the skill you want to learn. Then life moves on and those intentions evaporate.
A digital bucket list gives those intentions permanence. Once something is written, it has weight. You think about it when you're with the person. You notice opportunities. You find yourself making it happen — not because you suddenly became more motivated, but because the reminder is always there.
Love Manager's bucket list feature goes one further: it's per person. Not one giant life goals list, but individual lists for each relationship — what you want to do with your mother, your best friend, your partner. That specificity is what turns a list into action.
Why track life experiences together
Intentions become plans
When you write down "hike the coastal path with Marco," it stops being a nice idea and starts being a thing you're going to do. The list is the commitment.
You remember what matters
Opening someone's profile and seeing a bucket list you built together is a reminder of who this person is to you and what you want your relationship to be.
Completions are worth keeping
When you check something off, the experience doesn't disappear. Completed items stay — they become a record of what you've actually shared, which compounds into something meaningful over time.
There are people in your life you want to do more with. Visit more. Travel with. Try things with. But it's easy for those intentions to stay intentions indefinitely.
The bucket list feature is where you put those plans — per person, specific and written. Add anything: a hike you keep talking about, a city neither of you has visited, a restaurant that just opened nearby, a skill you want to learn together.
Once something is on the list, it changes how you see your time with that person. You start noticing openings. You mention it. You actually go.
When you finally do something from the list, mark it done and add a note about how it was. The entry stays — transformed from a wish into a memory. Over time, the completed section of a bucket list becomes one of the most personal things in someone's profile.
Nothing expires automatically. Something you added two years ago that still hasn't happened is still there, still possible. The list is patient. It holds your intentions until you're ready to act on them.
You can add as much or as little detail as you like. A single line is enough. The important thing is that it's written — which is already most of the work.
Marco Rossi
4 items · 1 done
Bucket list
Hike the Amalfi coastal path
We've been talking about this for three years
Watch all of Bergman's films together
Started with Wild Strawberries, need to continue
Cook a proper multi-course dinner from scratch
A whole Saturday — proper market run first
Radiohead concert
Done · March 2024 · one of the best nights
What goes on a bucket list
Travel and adventures
The trip to Portugal you keep mentioning. The road trip that's never quite happened. A hike on a trail you've both been reading about. Travel intentions are the most commonly deferred — writing them down helps.
Shared experiences
Concerts, restaurants, films, exhibitions. The things you want to do together that don't require a flight. A long list of these, slowly worked through, builds a relationship.
Things to learn together
A language, a craft, a sport. Shared learning changes the dynamic. It's vulnerable and fun and creates something you'll both remember. Worth writing down.
Small, meaningful things
A dinner you want to cook for them. A walk in a neighborhood neither of you knows well. A film you've both been meaning to watch. These matter too, and they're the ones that most often never happen.
What's included
Per-person lists
Each person in your network has their own bucket list — specific to that relationship, not a generic goals dump.
Notes and context
Add a line about why you want to do it or how it came up — the details make it real and actionable.
Mark as done
Check off items when they happen. Add a note about how it was — the memory stays attached.
Completed history
Done items remain in the list as a record of what you've actually shared. The history compounds.
No expiry
Nothing disappears automatically. Something you added years ago that still hasn't happened is still there.
Simple to add
No categories or priorities required. Write the thing down — that's the important part.
Part of a bigger picture
Bucket lists are one piece of Love Manager's approach to relationships that actually deepen over time.
Stop meaning to. Start planning.
Free to start. Takes a minute to set up.