My Last Times
You haven't called
in 112 days.
That's not a guilt trip. It's just the truth, sitting quietly in the corner of your screen. And knowing it makes you more likely to do something about it.
Why staying in touch is harder than it should be
Most relationships don't end dramatically. They fade. Someone moves. Life gets busy. You mean to call but the week fills up. Six months later you realize you've barely spoken, and neither of you did anything wrong — you just both let it drift.
The problem isn't caring. It's awareness. Without a record of when you last connected with someone, you have no anchor. It could have been three weeks or three months — the feeling is the same vague "it's been a while."
My Last Times gives you the anchor. Log when you last had dinner with someone, last called, last visited. The app shows how long ago it was — honestly, without judgment. That number, visible and specific, changes how you behave. You reach out sooner. You let less time pass. You stay in the relationships that matter to you, not just the ones that are convenient.
How contact tracking works
Log what you did and when
After spending time with someone, add a quick log: what it was (dinner, call, visit), when it happened, and a note if you want one. Takes 20 seconds.
See how long it's been
Each activity shows a color-coded age: gray for recent, orange for a while, red for too long. You open someone's profile and know instantly where things stand — no mental calculation needed.
Decide what to do
When you see it's been eight months since you visited someone, you decide whether to act — send a message, make a plan, pick up the phone. The app doesn't push. It just shows you the truth.
My Last Times is the most unusual feature in Love Manager. You log the last time you did something with a person — had dinner, called, visited, watched a film together. The app shows you how long ago that was.
Recent things show in gray. Things that have been a while show in orange. Things that have been too long show in red. The color is calibrated — not punishing, just accurate. You look at someone's profile and you know what needs attention.
You don't need to check it every day. Check it when you want to feel more intentional about your relationships — and it tells you honestly where things stand with each person.
There's a particular feeling when you realize it's been eight months since you saw someone you love. Not because anything happened — just because time moved and neither of you noticed.
My Last Times is designed to create that awareness before eight months passes, not after. It gives you a specific number — 47 days, 112 days, 8 months — that replaces the vague sense of "we should catch up" with something you can actually act on.
Everything here is fully private. These aren't notifications sent to anyone. They're a mirror — showing you what's true so you can decide what to do about it.
What to track
Calls & video chats
The check-in call, the long catch-up, the quick "thinking of you." For relationships where regular contact matters.
In-person visits
Seeing each other face-to-face. The hardest thing to maintain for people who don't live nearby — and the one that matters most.
Shared experiences
Dinners, events, outings, anything you did together. The texture of a relationship beyond just "are we in contact."
Any custom activity
You define the categories that matter. Morning runs together, book club, Sunday calls — whatever the rhythm of a relationship is, you can track it.
Marco Rossi
Close friend · Rome, Italy
Last times together
Had dinner together
His place, Friday night — that pasta thing he makes
Jan 2847 days ago
Called / video chat
Quick catch-up, maybe 20 minutes
Nov 25112 days ago
Visited in person
Weekend in Rome — walked around Trastevere
Jul 20248 months ago
Did something together
Radiohead concert
Mar 20241 year ago
It's been a while since you last visited. Maybe it's time.
How the colors work
Gray — recent
You've done this recently. No action needed. This relationship is being maintained.
Orange — it's been a while
Worth noticing. Maybe reach out soon — before it turns red.
Red — too long
You've been meaning to. Don't let it slip further — reach out today.
Who benefits most from contact tracking
Long-distance friendships
When you don't see someone regularly, contact requires conscious effort. Knowing it's been four months since you last called gives you the push to actually do it before the friendship quietly fades.
Elderly relatives
A parent or grandparent living alone often needs contact more than they ask for it. A record of when you last called surfaces naturally — a quiet prompt to reach out before the gap becomes something they feel.
People maintaining a big network
When you care about many people, some inevitably receive less attention. My Last Times surfaces who's been neglected — not as a judgment, but as information you can act on.
Anyone who's ever lost touch
Most people have at least one relationship they let drift that they wish they hadn't. My Last Times is the system that stops the next one from slipping away in exactly the same way.
What's included
Custom activity types
Track whatever matters — dinners, calls, visits, shared events. You define the categories that fit each relationship.
Color-coded time indicators
Gray for recent, orange for a while, red for too long. Honest, clear, and calibrated without being alarming.
Notes per entry
Add context to each log — where you were, what you talked about, what made it worth recording.
Per-person dashboard
All last times for a person are visible on their profile, alongside birthday, gifts, bucket list, and important days.
Nudge messages
When something has been too long, a quiet prompt appears below the relevant entry. A suggestion, not a notification.
Fully private
These records are only for you. Nothing is shared or sent to the other person. It's a mirror, not a report card.
Multiple contact types per person
Track calls, visits, and shared activities separately — because each one has a different frequency that matters.
Historical log
Every entry you make stays in the record. You can scroll back and see the full timeline of connection with someone.
Part of the full profile
Last times sit alongside birthdays, gift ideas, bucket lists, and important days — all the context you need in one place.
Works alongside
My Last Times is one layer of Love Manager's complete relationship toolkit.
Be intentional about the time you have.
Free to start. Takes a minute to set up.