Important Days
The dates that define you.
Birthdays are just the start. Love Manager tracks every significant date in your life and your relationships — milestones, anniversaries, memorials — honored every year without you having to remember.
What is an important dates tracker — and what belongs in it?
An important dates tracker holds the dates that shaped you — not just the ones printed on a calendar. The day you met someone who changed your life. The day a relationship began or ended. A first job, a graduation, a loss, a recovery. Moments that don't repeat but deserve to be honored.
Birthdays are standard. Every app has them. But life is full of dates that carry just as much weight and receive none of the same recognition — because they don't fit neatly into a category, or because there's no social system prompting you to remember them.
Love Manager's Important Days feature fills that gap. Add any date that matters, tie it to a person, note why it's significant, and set it to recur each year. On the anniversary of a moment that changed something, you'll know — not because you remembered, but because you recorded it once and let the system do the rest.
How it works
Add the date and what it means
Record the date, write a brief note about why it matters, and link it to a person. The note is for future you — context that makes the day land when it comes around again.
Choose a category
Tag the date — Anniversary, Memorial, Milestone, Achievement, or any custom type you define. Categories help you understand what kind of attention a date deserves when it arrives.
It recurs automatically
Set a date to repeat each year. It surfaces alongside birthdays in your upcoming view — no re-entry, no mental effort. The day just appears, every year, for as long as it matters.
The day you met. The day someone passed. A diagnosis that changed everything. The date of a move, a proposal, a first trip together. These are the dates that don't show up in a shared calendar.
Unlike birthdays, many important days belong to the relationship as much as the person. The day you met is as much yours as it is theirs. Recording it in their profile makes it visible to you every year — a quiet acknowledgment of what that day started.
Add any date that matters — tie it to a person, write a note that captures why it's significant. When the anniversary rolls around, the record is there. You remember. That alone is something.
Memorials deserve the same attention as celebrations. The anniversary of a parent passing, the date a friend recovered from something serious — these are days when a message, a call, or simply remembering matters deeply.
You don't have to do anything specific when an important day comes up. Sometimes awareness is enough. Sometimes it prompts a reach-out. Either way, you didn't forget — and in relationships, not forgetting is one of the most meaningful things you can do.
Important Days shows up alongside birthdays in your upcoming view. Celebrations and memorials, milestones and anniversaries — nothing significant slips past.
What counts as an important day
Any date with meaning belongs here. Here are the most common kinds — but the list is yours to define.
Relationship milestones
- · The day you first met
- · A first date, a first trip together
- · A proposal or wedding anniversary
- · The day a friendship became real
- · Years of knowing someone
Personal achievements
- · Graduation, completion of a degree
- · First job, promotion, new chapter
- · A published work, a finished project
- · A personal record or challenge completed
- · Years of sobriety or recovery
Life transitions
- · Moving to a new city or country
- · Buying a home
- · Starting or leaving something significant
- · The day everything changed
- · A diagnosis, a turning point
Memorial dates
- · The passing of a loved one
- · A date of loss worth honoring
- · The anniversary of something hard
- · Days when calling someone matters
- · Quiet remembrances, personal or shared
- 6 daysM
Marco & I — met on this day
March 22, 2018 · Anniversary · 7 years
Coffee at that place in Pigneto. The start of everything.
- 18 daysD
Dad's passing
April 3, 2019 · Memorial · 6 years
Call mum that day. She always needs someone to talk to.
- 27 daysL
Lucas — 2 years sober
April 12 · Milestone
Send him something. He earned this.
- 45 daysS
Sarah's year abroad ends
April 30 · Life Transition
She'll be back in Berlin. Plan something to welcome her home.
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Who uses an important days tracker
People in long-term relationships
The date you met, your first trip together, the night everything shifted — these dates matter to a partnership. Remembering them, year after year, is how you show someone they're known.
People who've experienced loss
Memorial dates don't come with reminders. Love Manager gives them one — so you're not caught off guard, and you can reach out to the people who are also carrying that date.
People building close friendships
Friendships have founding dates too — the first conversation that went deep, the shared experience that changed the dynamic. Remembering those is a way of investing in what you've built.
People who track personal growth
Two years sober. Five years in business. A decade since you moved countries. These personal milestones deserve to be marked — not just in the moment, but every year after.
What's included
Any date type
Anniversaries, memorials, achievements, milestones, life transitions. You define what counts.
Categories
Tag each date — Anniversary, Memorial, Milestone, Achievement — or create your own labels.
Yearly recurrence
Set a date to repeat every year. It surfaces automatically without any input from you.
Notes for context
Write what the day means. The note is for future you — the context that makes it land.
Linked to a person
Each important day belongs to someone's profile — personal, organized, and always findable.
Shows in upcoming view
Appears alongside birthdays so celebrations, milestones, and memorials share the same stage.
Memorials honored
Not every important date is a happy one. All of them deserve to be remembered.
Historical record
See how many years have passed since a date first happened. Seven years since you met. Ten since the move.
Quiet reminders
No noise, no push campaigns. A date simply surfaces in your view when it arrives.
Works alongside
Important Days is one layer of a complete picture of the people who matter most.
Honor the dates that shaped you.
Free to start. Takes a minute to set up.